is an article I read on the site of L'Orient Le Jour. As every morning, and before anything else as urgent as it is, I cross diagonally and Lebanese news bed with depth and precision page "views".
The item I want to talk, did not fail to attract my attention.
Entitled "Christian in my country, I soon felt concerned. Being Christian and being (unfortunately ...) of his country. Mr.
felt called to counsel women. As if he had any idea what it means to be a woman. Lebanese woman and a fortiori.
After reading his article, let me very clumsy, I could not help but dive into a new confusion, that of not knowing if I feel the urge to laugh or cry. And normally, my reactions are spontaneous.
I wanted to record a comment directly responsive, passionate, violent ... but I recently learned that to be heard must be controlled. So I chose the nice words. But now on my personal site, I would like to share with you, Mr. "Captain", impressions of a Lebanese woman. And Christian.
You say that the family should be governed by a single head. And this idea is not completely stupid. Even dictatorships (" enlightened" to quote one of my professors in law) proved to work well.
You say that Lebanese Christian women are becoming more liberated (I did not quite understand the need to specify the religion ... but nevermind).
You say it takes only one master is on the edge of the boat (the man) and that the woman would then play the role of co-pilot (I admit I found the words "cute").
you consider that the emancipation of women, access to a status equal to man, his ambition, his success are the causes of the failure of some marriages (the number of "growing" as you say although the term "crescent" seems more elegant my dear captain).
Also, you accuse the wave of liberalization as a primary source of the decline of family values and a negative impact on education children.
short, I'm not going to summarize your article well detailed as those who have not read have understood the message.
Let me now present to you my opinion on the subject.
I'm young. And I'm single. I can not pretend like you know what a life together and that requires a marriage (are you married?) But I will try from the top of my 24 years, to share with you my analysis .
Dare argued that women should only be mother and wife and abandon his status as a woman short and second career woman, would assume the following points:
- The success of man (so it has the luxury of not contributing to the financial needs of the household) because you have completely forgotten that the living conditions and the Lebanese economy dictate, often combined efforts of both parents. And yet ...
- The lack of ambition of the woman (for the latter to rejoice in his idleness)
- The folly of man (so he could hear a woman with a little more s'abêtissant every day) with all the consequences would be visited a couple stupid kids
- Archaic vision of man, his lack of confidence, etc.
I could go on for pages and list pages. But I hurry to reach my conclusion that will prove you wrong swimming.
I could tell you about my mother, a successful career, marriage and flawless four children do not suffer from lack of affection or complex, but you do not know to be guaranteed.
I could talk to my director at the office, beautiful woman who hangs pictures of her husband around and comes back in time to get his daughter out of school, to cook for her small her husband and spend the evening with family. This woman has something to tell her husband returning home, and not be restricted to trivial and irrelevant stories of neighbors and neighbors. This woman is a role model to her 8 year old daughter. Who taught him, without saying but the living image of a woman model carried.
I could tell you about the mother of a friend. A woman I admire and I respect that. A woman with impeccable values and faith untouchable who has educated two children (now adults) who succeed in life. Who lack neither love nor attention nor support financial or moral support or emotional support. These children who have excelled in their studies and also stand out in the workforce. I can tell you, Mr. Captain, and I want to assure you that their mother had breached no duty towards his home, and is now head of a court Lebanon.
Yes, these women make me dream.
Children make me dream too.
And a successful marriage.
But I can not allow myself to read an article written by a man, and daring to give advice to women.
What do you know her?
There is no recipe for a successful family.
Ultimately, the woman can work or not, man can also stay at home, why not?
One head ... I will. But it is at least ... Well done!
Please do not talk about Lebanese woman, Christian released. Talk about women at all.
And better yet, do not talk.
Excuse my arrogance. It must be my age. But Captain, you seem to know the water and want only the crossing, I end with a verse from a poem that inspires me Marbeuf:
"And the sea and love to have the bitter division,
He who fears the water, it remains to shore. "
Hi Marin.
Note: To access the article, visit www.lorientlejour.com Click "Debates" and "Opinions" and then "Christian in my country."
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